“Cremation has been completed. A family gathering will be held on the east coast at a later date. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to local Loveland groups supporting the arts and those in need. Go to www.viegutfuneralhome.com for on-line condolences.”
My wonderful, loving, beautiful, sweet, caring, creative, friend Marie passed away on July 8th at the age of 89. I read her obituary in the local paper a week later but was left with only sorrow at knowing I could not celebrate her life with her family and friends here locally. She was a resident of Loveland for the past 27 years and was very involved in the community.
We were in a garden club, a book club and the New Friendships Club together. She was like a mom to me; always offering encouragement and advice over a cup of tea and a homemade treat. Marie taught my daughter how to crochet and when my daughter got dressed up for her high school proms, she went over to Marie’s house with her date to share those special moments with her.
As some of you know, I lost another friend in May of this year who was cremated and did not have an obituary. I found out about his death through Facebook Messenger about three weeks after his death. I missed his memorial service.
An ad in the newspaper below Marie’s obituary offers ObitMessenger, “FREE obituary e-mail alerts for specific people, towns & more.” Is that what we have come to? I guess I’m “old school” about the passing of people near and dear to me. I want an obituary announcing a traditional memorial service or celebration of life. I need to be with others where the sharing of stories and shoulders to cry on help with the grieving process.
I’d like to know your feelings. Please leave me your comments.