Building a house book by book

Most of us have heard about the non-profit organization Habitat for Humanity or even shopped in their thrift stores called the ReStore. We know Habitat builds affordable housing for selected families who qualify. Did you know the houses they build aren’t built brick by brick, but book by book?

ReStore
Greeley ReStore, Photo by slc

A couple of weeks ago, I was browsing in one of my favorite thrift stores, the local Habitat ReStore. This particular ReStore has a wonderful used book selection. While purchasing another furniture refinishing project, I asked the manager if they needed any help shelving books. His answer was, “Let me introduce you to the man who works in the book section.” I met Steve, a retired gentleman, who had been volunteering for Habitat for many years. He showed me around and welcomed my help. I started volunteering the next day.

Belle the bookseller
Belle from Disney’s Beauty & the Beast

Now, feeling like Belle in the Beauty and the Beast, I am a bookseller and I am loving it. Steve does a wonderful job sorting, cleaning and shelving the hundreds of books donated to Habitat. Before I showed up, he didn’t really have time to sort fiction into categories like romance, mystery, and fantasy. That’s where I came in. Now, Steve and I sort books into specific genres making it easier for patrons to find their favorite books. We have also pulled several rare, out-of-print, and new books for special pricing and shelving.

An avid reader throughout my adult life and a former marketing coordinator at Barnes and Noble, volunteering as a bookseller at the ReStore suits me. Now, I am helping my local community by raising money to build affordable housing book by book.

Are you doing something in your community? Tell us about it in the comments below.

Solo In Style

This title is the name of an incredible Facebook group page by Deborah Ives I discovered recently. The whole name of the site is Solo In Style: Women Over 50 Traveling Solo & Loving It! It is a private group with 232K inspiring members.

In case you haven’t heard, women over 50 are leading the boom in solo travel with single, divorced and widowed women feeling more empowered, confident and financially independent than ever before.

Deborah Ives, Solo In Style

This morning, I read this impassioned post on the site by Lucinda Kang which began: “I wanted to share my experience after reading so many of your beautiful stories – told with vulnerability and love. While I am sorry many of you are going through painful crossroads, I am inspired by your strength and emboldened by this community of care amongst strangers.”

Solo in Style

Lucinda summed up this Facebook page beautifully. It is full of vulnerability and love, painful crossroads, strength and emboldened women who travel around the world in search of themselves, adventure and freedom. The site is full of inspiration and encouragement

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Cooking for one

Do you stand in front of the refrigerator wondering what to make for dinner? Do you buy the same thing nearly every week from the grocery store? Are you tired of eating leftovers for a week when you do whip up your favorite chili, meatloaf or casserole? Do you throw away food because of expiration dates or maybe because leftovers have turned into a science project? These scenarios occur when you are cooking for one.

cooking for one
Fresh ingredients, Photo by slc

About three weeks ago, I finally decided to end the on-going decision of what to eat, spending time at the grocery store, eating leftovers, and throwing away food. I started the meal delivery service HelloFresh. What a major difference it has made in my life.

I look through about 35-40 different meals and pick three (can also choose 2 or 4) meals a week. This week I am having One-Pan Beef Enchiladas Verdes (830 calories), Italian Chicken over Lemony Spaghetti (740 calories), and Meatloaves with Creamy Thyme Sauce (760 calories). Yum! Each meal comes with the ingredients in the correct portions to prepare enough for two people with easy to follow directions. Only ingredients you provide are the olive oil and/or butter.

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Preserving a husband?

I have written a couple of posts related to cookbooks and recipes recently. So, when I saw this 1952 Ophelia Ladies’ Aid cookbook from Exira, Iowa at a flea market, I could not resist buying it for $1. My Mom graduated from high school in 1952 and shortly thereafter she married my Dad.

On page 68, I found this unusual recipe for Preserving a Husband.

Be careful in your selection; do not choose too young and take only such varieties as have been reared in good moral atmosphere. When once decided upon and selected, let that part remain forever settled and give your entire thought to preparation for domestic use. Some insist on keeping them in hot water, even poor varieties may be made sweet, tender and good, by garnishing them with patience, well seasoned with smiles and flavored with kisses to taste. Then wrap well in mantle of charity, keep warm with a steady fire of devotion, and serve with peaches and cream. When thus prepared they will keep for years.

I guess I needed this recipe back in 1983 when I married and maybe my husband did too. I failed at “preserving my husband” after 21 years of marriage. Maybe I should have been more “careful in (my) selection.” No regrets though as I have been happily divorced for nearly 19 years now.

You just never know what little nuggets you find in these old cookbooks. What’s in yours?

Acquainted with grief

He is despised and rejected of men; a man of sorrows, and acquainted with grief…

Isaiah 53:3

I heard this verse last month at church and thought, “Wow, that describes my life in 2022.” You may recently become acquainted with grief too. I have an elderly friend whose husband passed away suddenly, a former student who lost a much anticipated pregnancy, a brother whose wife died, a sister and a friend who battled cancer, and I experienced the loss of a close relationship.

Through the grief, how did you cope? I leaned on my faith, books and close friends every day.

Luckily, I was in a Bible study small group of about ten women who met weekly throughout the year. These “sisters” listened patiently and prayed for me. Norma even sent me personal notes and three Journeying Through Grief booklets by pastor and clinical psychologist Dr. Kenneth C. Haugk. Norma is a Stephen Minister volunteer at my church. Her timely personal notes and booklets brought me healing and strength.

The author’s note inside the first book reads, “You’ve received this book because someone cares about you. The person who gave it to you knows you’ve lost someone very dear to you. When you lose someone you love, you lose part of yourself. And that can hurt–deeply. I hope you will allow me to walk alongside you through your grief journey….”

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Vintage Tupperware

Vintage Tupperware
Part of my personal collection, Photo by slc

How many of you use Tupperware on a weekly or even daily basis?  I certainly do.  When I bake, I get flour and brown sugar from my see through canisters and I use my yellow measuring spoons and cups for measuring baking powder and almond extract.  When I need to save leftovers, I pull out my Tupperware.  If you are like me, you bought most of your Tupperware years ago at a friend’s or your own Tupperware party.  These days I find shelves and shelves of Tupperware at flea markets and antique stores labeled “Vintage Tupperware.” 

According to Wikipedia, “Tupperware was developed in 1946 by Earl Silas Tupper (a chemist) in Leominster, Massachusetts.  He developed plastic containers used in households to contain food and keep them airtight, which featured a then-patented ‘burping seal.’  While Tupper invented the container’s seal, it was Brownie Wise who created the infamous Tupperware Party and the concept of home party businesses.”

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Granny basketball

Just ‘cause we’re old, don’t mean we can’t com-pete,
And moving keeps us up u-pon our feet.
We still can pass and guard and shoot and we can e-ven score,
But we just don’t look good na-ked a-ny-more.

–Joyce Kitson, from the song We Just Don’t Look Good Naked Anymore
Granny basketball
Photo from Granny Basketball website

According to the official website of the Granny Basketball League, Inc., granny teams began forming in 2005.  Now, there are “more than 450 players on 41 teams in 10 states:  14 teams in Iowa, 9 in Kansas, 5 in Texas, 3 each in Missouri and Oklahoma, 2 each in Minnesota and Wisconsin, and 1 each in Louisiana, Virginia and California. New teams are continuing to form.” My youngest sister plays on a championship Iowa team. I never knew granny basketball existed until she started playing.

A very good player in high school, my sister started playing granny basketball a few years ago in her 50’s. The team she plays on, the Cedar Rapids Sizzlers, won the 2022 National Granny Basketball Tournament.

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