Many of us have put up our Christmas tree and decorated our homes looking for happier times ahead. But what about our loved ones in assisted living or nursing homes? They probably are not able to join you or be close to family this time of year. Their tree and decorations are put up by staff members mostly. How about making the 12 days of Christmas brighter for them this year? Here are 12 ideas:
- Buy or make 12 cards to send each day until Christmas. Your loved ones will know you are thinking about them every day during this holiday season.
- Have your children and/or grandchildren, or even you, create some crafts. Pinterest has lots of ideas like the one I created with my three grandkids three years ago pictured on the right. Everyone loves handmade gifts, plus it’s fun making them!
- Take a picture of the family or make a collage if the family isn’t able to get together. Have a canvas print made at Walgreens or Walmart. These prints look like a painting and will be treasured.
- Have a special treat such as a favorite meal or dessert delivered to them.
- Remember, during this time your loved one may not be able to get out to shop. Last year, I sent my Mom some black bootie socks as she is wheelchair bound and she doesn’t wear shoes. The white ones she had were pretty dingy looking. Small gift but easy to mail and useful.
- Send copies of old photos along with a short note of remembrance of the time.
- Order a book online and have it mailed to your loved one directly to save yourself shipping costs.
- Purchase a coloring book and colored pencils for them. I love coloring in mine on lonely nights.
- My Mom always liked doing word searches but is no longer able to. If your parents can still do them buy a couple and send one a week along with a card.
- Send a small poinsettia, small tree or Christmas bouquet for them to enjoy during the season. Don’t wait until Christmas.
- Write and send a poem or a story about something joyful that happened in your childhood. Maybe describe your happiest holiday memory which included your loved one.
- Ask them if you could send Christmas cards out for them this year. Again, they may not be able to get out to pick any up or to get stamps. They could dictate a small note for you to include in the card. Relatives and friends would probably love hearing from them.
No partridge in a pear tree needed, just your love and a daily prayer too. Do you have an idea to share?