My friends and family members could not believe it, nor could I. After taking some time to grieve, I got to work.
Over the past 18 months, I drove to Iowa six times and flew once. I worked each time until my body nearly gave out. A couple of times I could hardly get in the car to leave because my body hurt so much. I would drive back home, try to recoup and then do it all again.
During some of my visits after my Mom’s passing, I was able to be present with my oldest sister, Susie. She and I enjoyed thrift shopping, several meals, Easter church service, and even a short gambling trip. In December of 2025, my dear sister passed away very unexpectantly. I lost my Mom in February and then Susie in December.
With the loss of my two closest family members, I did what I could to get my little house on the market. My nephew Shawn installed new kitchen cabinets, countertops and a dishwasher. I hired an electrician, a plumber and some great floor guys to assist me as well.
Initially I thought my Iowa project would take 2-3 years, but after just 18 months, a new buyer moved in August.
I have been asked a few times if I have any regrets about the conservatorship or buying the house. Regrets, no. Was it a burden? Yes, indeed. But I can say being present during my Mom’s final days and spending memorable times with Susie made it worth it.
God had a plan and I am so glad I had the courage to follow it. It was a journey of love, heartache, perseverance, loss and determination, but mostly faith.
Thank you to all who supported and prayed for me throughout. By the grace of God I made it through. I am grateful for the lessons I learned along the way.
I’ve reading tjhis, Sherry. You a lady of great courage and loving commitment to your mother. Clearly, faith is crucial to your worldview. Thanks for sharing yoru life stories with us.
– CB3
Charles, your comment means a lot to me. Thank you for reading my posts. If my posts help others going through similar issues then I feel they are worth sharing. Sherry