She shed update – welcome and unwelcome signs

While it may be taking two years to get my she shed ready for personal writing retreats, the welcome and unwelcome signs are now in use.

She shed update
Custom sign from Etsy, Photo by slc

Welcome Sign

I ordered a custom metal sign from Etsy for Sherry’s She Shed.  Since wildflowers are one of my most favorite gifts from God, I searched for a sign with beautiful flora.  I applied a coat of spar urethane to protect it from the elements.  After I installed the sign this week, I came across some of the old cabin cabinet doors.  So I fashioned a wooden sign holder out of the cabinet door just to bring some of the original character of the 1938 cabin to the new shed. 

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Bear mat sign in shed window, Photo by slc

Unwelcome Sign

I also constructed two bear unwelcome mats this week.  Over the years I have watched several tv shows about living and surviving in the wilderness.  Alaska: The Last Frontier, The Last Alaskans and Mountain Men are my favorites.   The brave individuals in these shows use bear mats at their remote cabin properties.  Bear mats are made of plywood and nails.  The bigger the bear the bigger the nails. While we don’t have grizzly bears in Colorado we do have black bears.  A couple of years ago, I encountered a black bear about 30 yards from my property and last year one left me an unwelcome sign, bear scat. 

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Homemade bear mats, Photo by slc

To make the bear mats, I used ugly shelving from my home (that’s why there is vinyl flooring on them). After researching the making of bear mats on the Colorado Parks and Wildlife website, I purchased 2” nails.  Nailing them on the board every 2” provides enough pain to get the bear to not pursue what’s behind the window of my shed, but they don’t hurt the bear.  They are secured in place with rebar so a bear can not just move them out of the way. When using bear unwelcome mats you need to post a warning they are in use. 

Unwanted visit

While I was working on touching up paint around the newly installed window, I encountered an unwanted visit. My most dreaded wildlife…a snake! It slithered from under my she shed, right under the doorway. This snake was long and I didn’t know what to do except wait to see it’s tail. In my mind at the time, if the snake had rattles, I would react differently than if it didn’t. Luckily for me, and for the snake, it did not have rattles. I think it just wanted to see what I was doing.

Sherry's She Shed
Western Terrestrial Garter Snake, Photo by slc

Luckily I saw it before it could go in the open doorway. I quickly decided it was probably a good thing to have a snake on the property to keep mice and voles in check. I sent a photo to the Colorado Department of Natural Resources and they identified the snake as a Western Terrestrial garter snake. They said it is harmless. Later, after researching online I learned that killing a snake, other than a rattlesnake, in Colorado is prohibited.

I enjoy learning survival techniques as I love the adventure, but I don’t enjoy feeling fearful.  Preparation assists in having a more enjoyable experience.  So come by for a visit. Everyone, except bears and mountain lions, are welcome.

Motivation for the new year

Have you ever wanted to do something you thought would be fun but didn’t do it because you couldn’t find someone to join you? Let’s agree to not let that happen again. There’s no reason that the lack of a companion should stop us from visiting someplace new.

Heidi Herman
motivation for the new year

Many times I would like to go to a concert or try out a new restaurant but I don’t because I don’t want to go alone. After reading Heidi Herman’s book On With the Butter! Spread More Living onto Everyday Life, I resolve to “not let that happen again” in 2021. Her book is full of motivation for the new year.

“This book was inspired by my mother, who lived her life to the fullest,” says Heidi Herman. After my mom’s recovery from a stroke in 2016 at the age of 92, my mom began promoting the message of living life with vitality no matter what your age. I helped her achieve and log 93 new activities between her 93rd and 94th birthdays, just to show you’re never too old to have fun.”

This delightful read is full of personal stories of Heidi and her inspirational Icelandic mother, who passed away in 2019 at the age of 94. One of my favorite stories was the depiction of her mom’s microwave hop. Her morning exercise routine was unique but easy to do. The challenges at the end of each chapter, with easy to use checklists, makes this a practical motivational approach. Some of the ideas in the book we have heard before, such as stay active. It doesn’t hurt to hear them again along with numerous new ideas.

Have a friend or relative retiring this year? Consider this small but mighty book as a gift. They will enjoy the inspirational quotes sprinkled throughout the book. I love this one by Hans Christian Anderson, the author of The Little Mermaid and The Ugly Duckling:

Enjoy life. There’s plenty of time to be dead.

Hans Christian Anderson

Top 5 posts of 2020

top 5 posts 2020

You deserve a BIG shoutout for making 2020 the best year ever for LivingLifeRetired.com. Visitors to this site more than doubled in 2020 over any other previous year. Thank you!

Due to COVID-19 many of us tried to stay in touch with our family members who were, or still are, isolated in assisted living and nursing homes. This trend appeared in the visits to the LivingLifeRetired site this year. The top 5 posts of 2020 included topics of staying connected with families, worry and hope.

Here are your top five most read posts of 2020:

Nursing Home Phones Keep Families Connected, 2019

Legacybox and Mom’s “First Films”, 2018

Worry is Like a Rocking Chair, 2020

Retirement Adjustment Stages, 2016

Listening to God and Heidi, 2020 tied with Rabbit Rabbit, 2020

Thank you again for visiting LivingLifeRetired.com this past year. I look forward to 2021 with hope for new adventures and memory making for my readers. If you have enjoyed reading posts on this site, please click on the like button below.

Ghost of Christmas past – depression

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Growing up in an Iowa farm house with a family of nine made Christmas an event. My ghost of Christmas past would first show me events full of fun with lots of family and friends while celebrating the birth of Jesus. But my ghost would also show me many Christmases with an undertone of depression which I wrestle with to a lesser degree today.

Weeks before Christmas when I was quite young, my siblings and I would go to Christmas practice at church. I loved being at church as I had many friends there. We sang and played different roles while reenacting the Christmas story about Jesus’ birth. The actual performance following these practices was usually on Christmas Eve.

I remember receiving a new dress to wear for the special Christmas Eve church service. This dress was very special as it was one of the only new pieces of clothing I had all year. This gift of a new dress added to my Christmas Eve anticipation.

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